You’re not just picking someone to take your photo. You’re choosing someone to see your family.
The sleepy-eyed toddler on your hip, the way your partner reaches for your hand when no one’s looking, the chaos, the closeness, the quiet in-between. Family photography is so much more than smiling at a camera. It’s about finding someone who knows how to capture you — just as you are, beautifully and honestly. So how do you choose the right family photographer?
Here are a few things I always encourage families to consider — no overwhelm required.
How To Choose A Family Photographer
1. Look for a Style That Speaks to You
Photography isn’t one-size-fits-all. Some photographers specialize in traditional, posed portraits with everyone looking at the camera. Others (like me!) lean toward a more candid, lifestyle approach — capturing emotion, movement, and those magic unscripted moments.
What to ask yourself:
- Do I want portraits that feel timeless and classic?
- Do I want photos that feel like memories unfolding?
2. Check Their Experience with Families Like Yours
Got a toddler who hates sand? A teen who’s “too cool”? A partner who’d rather do anything else? You want a photographer who’s comfortable with real life. Experience matters — not just with a camera, but with kids, chaos, and personalities of all kinds.
What to look for:
- Blog posts or galleries featuring families with children the same age as yours
- Testimonials from other moms
- A tone that feels understanding, not salesy
You’re not just hiring talent. You’re inviting someone into a moment that matters.
3. Read Reviews and Testimonials
The best glimpse into your potential session isn’t always the photos — it’s the words past clients share. Reviews can tell you so much about a photographer’s process, personality, and whether they made families feel safe, seen, and comfortable.
Scan for phrases like:
- “Made us feel so relaxed”
- “Waz absolutely amazing with our kids”
- “We have photos that feel like our real life“
These are signs of someone who doesn’t just shoot — they connect.
4. Consider the Full Experience — Not Just the Price
Listen, I get it. As a mom of four, I know that investing in family photos is a big deal. But the right photographer doesn’t just deliver images. They create an experience that feels easy, fun, and worth remembering.
Ask yourself:
- Do they help with outfits? Location ideas? What to expect?
- Will they guide us so we don’t feel awkward?
- Are the final images something I’ll treasure in 10, 20, 50 years?
You’re not buying digital files. You’re preserving connection.
5. Trust Your Gut
At the end of the day, the right photographer will make you feel at ease before you even meet. Their work will move you. Their words will resonate. And something in you will say — yes, this is the one. If you’re already here, reading this, there’s a good chance we might be a great fit!
Ready to Tell Your Story?
If you’re searching for a Virginia Beach family photographer who believes in meaningful moments, barefoot joy, and connection over perfection — I’d be honored to serve your family! Check out my family portrait experience, get more helpful tips for planning your session, or reach out anytime — I’d love to hear what makes your family you.
Hugs,
Shannon
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